Monday 15 July 2013

Self hypnosis techniques to build self confidence

Do you suffer from Negative thoughts about your abilities? Well, this can be a sign of low self confidence. Here are self hypnosis techniques for you to try and incorporate confidence in your life.



Do you have low self confidence?

Those who have high levels of self-confidence are often more positive about their abilities, whereas those who lack the quality generally have negative thoughts about themselves and their abilities. This is usually why those with low self confidence seek to develop their confidence level.

If an individual has low self confidence they will often feel:


•    shy and uneasy
•    uncomfortable in certain situations
•    uncertain of themselves
•    uncertain of their needs
•    sense of worthlessness
•    negative thoughts about themselves.

Causes of low self confidence

How confidence developed throughout an individual’s early life and genetics are both thought to influence the current level of confidence an individual has. However this level can often be changed as everyone has the ability and skills to enhance their self-confidence. It is often the case that individual’s are simply unsure of how to use these skills to achieve an increased level of self-confidence, and need to be shown how.

Help for low self confidence

Counselling, hypnotherapy and life coaching may be used to help an individual develop their self confidence, and there are a vast number of books available with strategies and techniques to build confidence.

Hypnotherapy often has high success rates for helping those suffering from low self confidence.

Hypnotherapy seeks to determine the root cause of the low self confidence and then find ways to resolve it. Hypnosis can reach the unconscious mind and modify belief systems, and replace negative thought patterns with positive ones. This can boost self confidence and completely change an individual’s life.

Ref: http://www.hypnotherapy-directory.org.uk/articles/selfconfidence.html

Understanding self-esteem (1)

Self-esteem is related to what you think and believe about yourself and how you value yourself. Building self-esteem is a first step towards your happiness and a more fulfilling life.

Health self-esteem increases your confidence. If you have confidence you will respect yourself. If you respect yourself you can respect others, improve your relationships, respect your achievements and increase your quality of life.

Poor Self-Esteem vs. Healthy Self-Esteem
Low self esteem causes unhappiness, insecurity, a lack of confidence and in time can lead to depression. Inner criticism, that nagging voice of disapproval inside you causes you to hesitate at any new challenge life seems much harder that it should be.

In psychology, self-esteem or self-worth is a person's self-image at an emotional level; circumventing reason and logic. The term differs from ego in that the ego is a more artificial aspect; one can remain highly egotistical, while underneath have very low self-esteem:

People with poor self-esteem often rely on how they are doing in the present to determine how they feel about themselves. They need positive external experiences to counteract the negative feelings and thoughts that constantly plague them. Even then, the good feeling (from a good grade, etc.) can be temporary.

Healthy self-esteem is based on our ability to assess ourselves accurately (know ourselves) and still be able to accept and to value ourselves unconditionally. This means being able to realistically acknowledge our strengths and limitations (which is part of being human) and at the same time accepting ourselves as worthy and worthwhile without conditions or reservations. Self-esteem is largely developed during childhood.

Childhood experiences that lead to healthy self-esteem include:

•    being praised and valued
•    being listened to
•    being respected
•    getting attention
•    experiencing success
•    having good and close friends

Childhood experiences that lead to low self-esteem include:

•    being unfairly and harshly criticized
•    being physically, mentally or emotionally abused
•    being ignored, ridiculed or teased
•    having parental expectations of perfection
•    experiencing failures

People with low self-esteem were often given messages that failed experiences were failures of their whole self.

Ref: http://www.trancesolutions.com/hypnosis_and_self-esteem.htm

Have confidence and go ahead in life with Self Hypnosis Technique.

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